One of our challenges right now with our three year old is helping him to get through strong emotions. You can see the bewilderment in his eyes even as he makes the decision to throw a toy or swing an arm. So… children’s book idea:
I like being happy
I sometimes feel sad
But what should I do
When I get mad?
I want to throw things
I just want to hit
I want to kick stuff
I want to spit.
But if I do these
Then trouble is had.
Please what should I do
When I get mad?
The lion says “Roar!”
Giraffe stomps his hoof.
A doggy makes growls
And then shouts “Woof!”
Turtle takes a breath
Cheetah has a run
Monkey hops around
Lizard gets sun.
Grandma claps her hands
And says “that won’t do!”
I guess I’ll try these
Next time I’m blue.
It helps to use words
To say how I feel.
And after I roar/stomp/growl/bark/breathe/run/hop/rest/clap/speak
Feel better still.
I like happy best
Sometimes I feel sad
But I know what to do
When I feel mad.